Youth Ministry Update

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Since 2006, Nate Campbell has been the eyes and ears of Youth Ministry here at Ste. Marie Parish.  He has organized and implemented programs that have enriched the lives of many of our youth.  Due to financial difficulties in the parish, Fr. Moe had to make the decision to move Youth Ministry leadership into a ‘volunteer’ status rather than a paid status.  We are sad to see Nate leave this position, but we also offer him our continued prayers for him and his family as they count on the Lord to guide and direct them to the next phase of their journey in life.  Thank you Nate for your service and commitment to our youth.

That means that Fr. Moe has assigned the Office of Children’s Ministry a new name and a new role.  Our office is now known as:  Ste. Marie Office of Children and Youth Ministry.  It will be our task to pray, oversee and gather volunteers to work together to continue the work of Youth Ministry.  With the change in leadership, I now find myself in deeper prayer and seeking the guidance of the Holy Spirit in a much deeper way than every before.

Through prayer, it has been made abundantly clear to me that I need the input of parents, students and current leaders in order to continue to serve the families of Ste. Marie to the best of my abilities.  I would like very much to meet with as many Jr. High and High School students as possible to hear their point of view and brainstorm with them on how Youth Ministry can continue to meet their needs.  In meeting with them, I hope to reassure them that Youth Ministry will continue to be a vital part of their lives here at Ste. Marie as they grow in their Catholic Faith.

Therefore, on Wed., May 9th, I have asked several adult leaders to join Fr. Moe and myself to meet with as many Jr. High and High School students as we can (please spread the word to attend this night) to pray and discuss what the future holds for Youth Ministry.  We will meet in the Hevey School Auditorium from 7 to 8:30pm.  Light refreshments will be served.

After hearing what our youth have to say on May 9th, we invite parents to join us on Wed., May 16th in Montminy Hall (the church basement) at 7pm for the same purpose, to be reassured of the continuation of Youth Ministry, to hear what programs are currently offered and to brainstorm about the future of Youth Ministry.  At this parent forum, you will also hear about the plans for Confirmation preparation for incoming and current students as well.

It is the hope of Fr. Moe and myself that through these two important sessions, we can come together as family to help our youth continue to prepare for their sacraments, grow in their faith and especially to deepen their friendship with Jesus.  Please email our office with any questions or comments at:  stemarie.youthministry@gmail.com or you can call us at 624-1509.  Our office hours are Mon. to Fri., 8:45am to 4:30pm.

The Motto of Ste. Marie Children and Youth Ministry Office is:  Communication is key – there is no circumstance or challenge that cannot be overcome except the one that is not communicated.  Let’s work together, sharing our love, faith, prayer, thoughts and ideas to continue to create an environment where our youth feel and know God’s love, are nurtured in their faith and have available to them a safe place to come to where fun and faith go hand in hand.

In Christ,

Terry Bolduc

Some Changes

Hey Everyone,

I wanted to be the first to let you all know about some important changes to our youth ministry program here at Ste. Marie’s. As many of you have been aware, Ste. Marie’s has struggled financially through the last several years of recession. Despite what some have called a “slow recovery” in the economy, the parish has continued to be in the red. Due to these circumstances Fr. Moe has decided my position here at the parish should be eliminated effective yesterday.

I know many of you might be shocked or disappointed by this news. Trust me when I tell you it wasn’t what I was hoping to hear yesterday morning either, and I feel it with you. That said, I leave my position at Ste. Marie with a strong youth ministry program that is the envy of many in the diocese and beyond. I thank God for the blessings of the last six years. The relationships I have had with so many of you will be something I will carry with me, especially those of you teens. Thank you for allowing me share your walk with the LORD.

Together we have done great things, and I hope and pray these things will continue. I harbor no ill will towards the parish or to Fr. Moe, and nor should you. If you seek to honor me in any way, I hope you will all continue to help make Ste. Marie a leader in youth ministry in the diocese.

There will be transition as the Office of Children’s Ministry takes over many of the responsibilities of my office. I hope you will all work with them to make this transition as smooth as possible as they move to a totally volunteer run model of youth ministry. Terry Bolduc will now be your contact for all ministries formerly under my office, and she has asked me to give you her number so you can be in touch with her if need be: 603.624.1509. Life Teen, XLT and Kid’s Café should all continue throughout the year as scheduled, and I know Fr. Moe and the Office of Children’s Ministry will be making plans through the summer for next year.

I wanted you all to hear this news from me first, and again let you know what a blessing it has been. Over the last six years Ste. Marie had truly become a home for me, not just a job, and it is not easy to let it go. However I know God has a plan for us. Please keep Kathy, Isabella and I in prayers as I seek new employment, and know that you will continue to be in mine.

Peace in Christ,
Nate Campbell

World Youth Day, Madrid, Spain

At JMJ 2011, or World Youth Day, two million young people gathered in Madrid, Spain to see the Holy Father Benedict XVI. I was one of those 2 million.

I spent three days at JMJ and there are no words to truly describe what I experienced there. Everywhere I looked, I saw hundreds of thousands of people walking. There are two things that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

One was the amount of people that I saw this past weekend all gathered to see the Pope and worship Christ. Even in the small hurricane that we experienced, people were still dropping to their knees during adoration and praying. Tears pooled in my eyes as I looked around and saw the amazing love for Christ that was surrounding me.

The second thing that I will always remember is what the Holy Father said during his homily at Sunday Mass. He talked about how we have a longing in our hearts for something greater. He said, “So many young people are still ignorant of God’s love, or they seek to fill their hearts with insignificant substances”. The Holy Father said that we are born with a special longing for love and something greater. Most people try to fill this longing with “insignificant things” because they either don’t know Christ or they are afraid to know Him. But there’s nothing to be afraid of! In all of the people that I saw at JMJ, I either saw Christ in them, or I saw that “something greater” being searched for.

Pope Benedict XVI also said that our faith is not based on feelings. Our faith is based on something so much bigger. Our faith is Rooted in Christ. The direct translation I heard over my little radio. I thought that it was cool because for Steubenville, our shirts said “Rooted in Christ”. Rooted is the Bible verse of the year, so it didn’t surprise me too much, but it still stuck with me.

Another thing that really stuck with me was my confession. I went to confession at 2am on Saturday night/Sunday morning, and the first thing the priest said to me (after he told me that he spoke English ) was “I can see the

Holy Spirit working in you. You are doing exactly what you’re supposed to be doing….asking Jesus to help you to be rooted in Him. Praying.” I took both what the priest said to me and what I heard from the Holy Father as an answer from God.

So what did I gain from WYD JMJ 2011 in Madrid, Spain? I learned that prayer is the true way to be Rooted in Christ. Prayer is the answer to every question, and with prayer and patience, we will learn what God has in store for us. I also learned that, even on the days when we feel like we are completely alone, there are MILLIONS of other Catholics in the world, trying  to be holy and figure out God’s will for them, just like you and I.

WYD JMJ 2011 was absolutely amazing. I stumble over my words every time I try to talk about WYD. My heart explodes every time I try to explain it. There is just so much to say. It is something that I will remember for the rest of my life, but I don’t think that I will ever truly be able to  explain the intensity of it all.

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Glee on God in Public Schools

So I have to admit I’m a little bit of a Gleek.  Besides great music and dance, the hit TV show often takes on huge social issues that we deal with in our culture.  Teen pregnancy, homosexuality, disabilities, bullying and family issues are just a few of these topics.  This past week however they finally devoted an episode to the “God-issue”.  If you didn’t catch the episode, the openly gay character, Kirk, has his dad end up in the hospital from a heart attack.  Meanwhile Finn, the quarterback character has a religious experience with his grilled cheese sandwich, setting off a firestorm in the Glee club as to whether God exists, should we pray for Kirk’s dad (even though Kirk is an atheist), and can we even talk about God in school.

There are so many parts of the episode I could talk about, and I half want to pick apart the whole episode for you all, but I’ll spare you.  Instead I want to just mention the last issue, whether or not we can talk about God in school.  The show brought up an issue that should not even be an issue, and I want to clarify it.  In the show, Sue Sylvester, the Glee-frienemy character of the show takes the Glee coach Will Schuester to the principal for allowing his students to explore and discuss issues of faith on school grounds.  Will and the Glee club are put on notice even as the discussion continues off school grounds.

The truth is this: if you are a teen at a public school, you have a right and freedom to discuss your faith and pray in school, during school hours, and even in class assignments.  Your faith is protected by our Constitution, and no teacher, school administrator or cheerleading coach should tell you otherwise.  But I want to challenge you all to go a bit farther.  In the Catholic understanding, God gives us rights so we can live up to responsibilities.  Imagine your parents bought you a new car, but along with that comes the responsibility of helping to drive your younger siblings places.  You have it so you can use it.  You have  the freedom to talk about Jesus at school, but are you using that freedom to answer the Gospel call to be His witnesses to the ends of the Earth?  You have a freedom to pray and talk about Jesus, but do you use that freedom.

Here are some practical ways to just that:

  1. Be sure pray a blessing over your food at lunch. It’s always good to say grace before a meal, and even this one little act can be a huge witness.
  2. Bring your faith to class. Whether it’s an writing about Steubenville East in that english paper on “What you did this summer,” or it’s picking the Battle of Lepanto (where Our Lady’s intercession helped save Europe from Muslim invasion) for the topic of your history paper, or learning the Our Father for your French dialogue, bringing your faith into the classroom helps educate and witness to your classmates who won’t hear the whole truth from their teachers.
  3. Pray for/with your friends. I know a lot of you guys already pray for your friends, but do your friends know that you are praying for them.  It doesn’t have to be all in-your-face like on Glee, but if your friend is going through a tough time, pull them aside and let them know you are praying for them.  If you really feel the Holy Spirit moving you, ask them if they would like you to pray with them.  You might be surprised how often people say yes to that question.
  4. Start a club. It’s great to have Life Teen or EDGE once a week, but wouldn’t it be cool to have some support at your school?  Most schools allow students to form after or before school clubs.  All you need is a few people, and usually a faculty advisor/sponsor (trust me there are more that are willing than you think).  Since it’s not during school hours, teachers can then become involved, and you can even invite special guests (like your youth minister or priest!).
  5. Make it part of the routine. Even if you don’t have a club, it’s still possible to meet up with with other Catholics at your school (and there are others) before the day starts to read the gospel of the day together, or to pray a Divine Mercy Chaplet.  Making it a regular thing will help keep you spiritually fed and strong at school and is a great witness to anyone who may be passing by.

In closing I do want to acknowledge these things aren’t always easy.  Wherever there is faith, it will be attacked.  However keeping all things in prayer, remember the example of the holy martyrs and Saints who came before you.  A slushy to the face isn’t going to kill you, but it will make you holier.  Stand true, be bold and know that Jesus is there with you.

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